Last week The Genki Spark held a Skill Share for members on how to be an ally. With PRIDE just around the corner, this space was a perfect opportunity for a member to facilitate an activity, training, lesson on something they are passionate, knowledgeable, or strong in. I led this Skill Share as being an ally is something that I care a lot about, and work very hard to aspire to be.
Those of us at the Skill Share reflected on how privilege and oppression affect our daily lives. We also discussed traits of a good ally and a not so good ally. Here’s what we came up with. What do you think makes a good ally?
We also completed two phrases to show how we feel about allies to us and how we can be allies to others. Why do you think allies are important?
ALLIES ARE IMPORTANT BECAUSE…
I AM AN ALLY BECAUSE…
Just a quick plug…today is National Coming Out Day. It is a day where folks come out as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, or Queer…..AND as an ally. If you all read my last entry around Pride (in June), I invited you allies to participate in the Boston Pride Festival. Now it being October and today being National Coming Out Day, I invite you again to be visible as an ally. It is just as important to be a visible ally as it is to be a visible [insert identity] because without us, social change is impossible. We are here to tell folks that they are not alone, they are not strange, there is nothing wrong with them. We see them, ALL of them. And LOVE them unapologetically. Coming out doesn’t mean you have to wear a sign that says, “I’m an ally.” Saying, “Hello,” or asking someone how they’re life is going can be one of the biggest contradictions to someone who feels like they don’t belong because of who they are. Whether it be an ally to LGBTQ, youth, people of the global majority, women, labor workers, etc, you matter. Come out and be proud that you support the fight for all people to be recognized and loved as the wonderful humans they are.
I did a little research to find an inspirational quote about today, but I thought, let’s keep it simple. Come out as an ally today, because, as a fellow Genki Sister once said, “Why not?” You won’t regret it, promise.
Happy Coming Out Day!!!
Love and Hugs,
Boston’s Pride Festival is this Saturday. For those of you unfamiliar with Pride, it’s a celebration of our Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer (LGBTQ) communities. It’s an opportunity for LGBTQ folks to celebrate their communities and for us allies to celebrate them and our connections with them. For the third year in a row, The Genki Spark has the opportunity to participate in the festival, both marching in the parade (with taiko in a truck!) and perform on the festival stage. I’ve performed at the past two and am looking forward to this celebration again this year.
I’ve been putting off writing a piece on what it means to be an ally because I wanted to put a lot of thought into what I was going to write. Since the inception of this blog, I keep telling myself that I would write this piece around this time to let my LGBTQ friends and family know that I back them for who they are, and to let other allies know that they are not the only ones. This year I’ve decided to stop putting it off and just write what’s on my mind now.
This year is extra special for me because I have taken the role of organizing my Genki sisters for this event. It’s been stressful, exciting, and all together a roller coaster (mostly in my head). I offered my time to take this position on because as an ally, I thought to myself, “I need to step-up in being an ally to my LGBTQ folks.” I have people I hold very dear to my heart that identify as queer so being an ally to the LGBTQ community means that I have to be a visible ally. I was also inspired to write this piece because I read Jason Lydon’s blog entry on being an ally to LGBTQ youth. (If you haven’t heard of Jason Lydon, he an amazing anti-prison organizer and founder of Black & Pink, an LGBTQ-focused effort on ending the prison-industrial complex.) As someone who also works with youth and youth of color, I applaud his being an ally to a group that is often silenced differently than other young people. While I can write a lot about what it means to be an ally to various groups, I thought given that June is Pride month, and in line with Jason’s train of thought, I want to share with you what I will be celebrating at this year’s Pride as a loud, proud, genki LGBTQ ally:
- All the bright colors that people will be wearing. What a great way to show off who you are in the biggest and boldest way possible
- Young allies- It matters that you are here and I am grateful that there will be many allies for many, many Pride festivals to come
- LGBTQ folks of color- I march alongside you because as an ally of color I know that I only understand part of the oppression that you experience. In order end racism we must also end all other oppressions.
- The singing, dancing, acting, jumping, marching, laughing, crying and other expressions that are part of being human
- My LGBTQ friends and family- I embrace and celebrate all of the beautifully perfect person you are.
Special shout-out to my fellow allies…I’ll to see you on Saturday